Created for Connection
A Created for Connection retreat offers couples a unique opportunity to deepen their bond, rebuild trust, and create lasting emotional connections.
​​About the Retreat
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The truth is, loving well is hard—especially in a world that constantly pulls us in different directions. Even when we are intentional about nurturing our most important relationships, we can find ourselves stuck in a cycle of misunderstandings, hurts, and unmet longings. Yet we know that God wants to meet us and help us in this place.
A Created for Connection retreat offers a space to pause, refocus, and pair your intentionality with proven guidance to restore and deepen intimacy and understanding.
In some relationships, partners feel they could use some “fine-tuning.” In other relationships, partners feel an adjustment to the entire “culture” of the relationship is needed. This retreat serves couples across this spectrum—from those seeking small adjustments to those looking to reignite their connection and heal. Click here to learn if this retreat is a good fit for you.
Grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), the retreat integrates the wisdom of Jesus, the Author of Love, and demonstrates how the best of modern couples psychology aligns beautifully with God’s timeless truths about love and connection.
Throughout the retreat, we will guide you and your partner through the firstfour sofeven key conversations drawn from the Created for Connection framework ("Part II Retreats" will be announced soon!).
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Recognizing the “Demon Dialogues”: Identify negative interaction patterns that create distance between you and your partner.
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Finding the Raw Spots: Uncover the hidden vulnerabilities that fuel conflict and misunderstanding.
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Revisiting a Rocky Moment: Reflect on past conflicts to foster understanding and healing.
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Hold Me Tight: Learn how to create a secure, comforting connection during vulnerable moments.
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Forgiving Injuries: Address and heal emotional wounds to rebuild trust and safety.
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Bonding Through Sex and Touch: Deepen your physical and emotional intimacy.
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Keeping Your Love Alive: Develop strategies to nurture and sustain your relationship long-term.
This retreat is more than a workshop; it’s an investment in your relationship. Participating alongside other couples creates a shared experience that builds community and fosters mutual encouragement. By engaging in these meaningful conversations, you and your partner will gain tools and insights to navigate challenges, strengthen your bond, and create a foundation for a more secure and fulfilling future together.
Join us and take a step toward creating the connection you both deserve.
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Jon Ayers
Jon Ayers (MA, LCMHC) has been serving individuals and couples in clinical mental health for 12 years. With advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT)—considered the gold standard in couples therapy—Jon helps couples navigate challenges and build thriving relationships. His 10 years in full-time campus ministry equipped him to integrate Biblical principles of love, grace, and reconciliation with the latest insights from attachment science. Through his private practice, Flourish Counseling (www.flourishvt.com), Jon provides counseling, consultation and group experiences drawn from the roots of his Christian faith.
Details
Price: The total cost for the retreat is $600 per couple. There's a 4% discount if you choose to pay by check or ACH (details below). This price covers the full retreat experience, all materials, and accommodations at 7th Seed Lodge on Friday night and guidance from an experienced Couples Therapist. Meals include Friday dinner, Saturday breakfast and lunch, along with snacks and refreshments throughout the retreat.
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Registration Steps
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Step 1: Submit Payment (Choose Credit Card or Discounted Check/ACH)
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Step 2: Complete the brief Couple’s Questionnaire (Each Partner Must Submit Separately)
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Step 3: Once both payment and both partners' questionnaires are received, your spot is reserved! We will email you to confirm.
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Confirmation and Placement Policy
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You are not fully registered until both payment and questionnaires are received.
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Registrations are processed in the order completed.
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Register Early: This retreat has sold-out each time it has been offered. Also, preferred rooms (i.e. 3rd floor spacious lofts) go to the first four couples who are fully registered. (We can't think of a fairer way to assign rooms!). If you sign up later, don't worry - the whole building is beautiful and well-appointed.
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Refund Policy
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We understand that life happens—and sometimes plans need to change. To honor both your commitment and the planning that goes into creating a meaningful retreat experience, we offer a tiered refund policy:
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Cancel more than 30 days before the retreat: Full refund minus $50 amin fee
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15 to 30 days before the retreat: 50% refund.
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Less than 15 days before the retreat: Unfortunately, we’re unable to offer a refund
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If you’re unable to attend, you're welcome to transfer your spot to a friend or colleague (just let us know in advance), or we’ll do our best to fill your spot from the waitlist. If we’re able to, we may be able to offer a partial refund minus an administrative fee.
Thank you for understanding—your registration helps make these healing and restorative spaces possible.